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Mar 21, 2023Liked by Christine Koh

Great piece. Thank you for sharing!

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Thanks for reading!

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I know how that must have felt being a soccer mom myself! But yes, there are other ways to really show up. I like how you just let her celebrate her goal and shared that great feeling in the aftermath.

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Thanks so much, Kath. I often refer to myself as a somewhat reluctant sports parent, but I think I am going to reframe that as a well-boundaried sports parent. :-)

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It’s filled with fun and heartwarming moments! Enjoy the journey! My son is grown now, still playing but he doesn’t really want me in games in the same way as before. 😂

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As a 72 year old active woman, I have recently been bedridden for over 6 weeks with no end in sight due to double broken ankle and severe osteoporosis. Many friends have called and visited. This is what I noticed/learned: when I “fake” happiness and don’t mention my constant pain and depression, I get call backs and visits. When I tell the truth and basically “complain” about my circumstances, I don’t hear back. After much contemplation, I’ve decided to meditate more and not burden anyone else. I am trying to liberate my comedic self and poke fun at my plight.

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Oh no! I hope you really get better soon and find small comforts in your current space. Tell me, what would you truly, truly appreciate in times like this? When I visit loved ones and friends who are not so well, I often wonder, what can I do to make them feel better? ❤️

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